26-01-2023, 09:39 PM
There's no such thing as the perfect family because there is no such thing as the perfect person. It still amazes me how so many people feel shame when describing their family and assuming others are 'right'. But that happens with all aspects of the self. "I'm x and y why can't I be like that person there who is 'normal". Not realising that normal is a myth and we all have stuff.
Mind you there are always the extremes. Mam and dad having weird quirks and rules isn't dysfunctional. Mam and dad abusing their children is.
Mind you there are always the extremes. Mam and dad having weird quirks and rules isn't dysfunctional. Mam and dad abusing their children is.